there are those moments in life where I want to just roll my eyes at the person that wrote something or talked to and correct them. Today has been one of those days I am irritated by quiet a few people. So here goes my responses to people.

• yes horrid names even if they are nicknames should be considered child abuse for kids especially if you use ones like Urby. Poor child it going to grow up with such a complex that is why the whole entire family refuses to call him Urby. His name is Ray. Ray is a good strong name.
• not talking to your child about their bodily functions at an early age is a strange thing. Why not let them grow up thinking these things that are normal are a taboo to the point that  your child thinks their is something wrong with them for having these things go on.
• Just because you get the reason you are in trouble doesn't get you out of the trouble. If you murdered someone the judge wouldn't just say "well you understand why killing that guy is wrong I think we will let you go. Have a great day now just don't do it again." Same with discipline. Discipline is supposed to teach real life and in real life there are consequences you pay short or long term for things that you do same with punishments. The consequence of doing what you know is right is you are free to play, eat, live and enjoy life. If you do wrong you will suffer the negative of the bad choice. That is why you choose good over bad.
• I don't know how you can sit there and say I don't understand. Wake up and look at my life. I have 4 kids. They weren't just dropped down my chimney. I carried them in my body, gave birth and have been single handedly raising them since they were babies. Yes I understand but what is more....I accept the consequences good or bad for my actions of not wanting to marry the father(s). I accept what I chose to do AND I did take all the precautions I could. Sadly you think that it is OK to just fuck this guy and that and then when you come up pregnant you can just rope one of the many guys into paying when it is clearly not his child...all because he is that stupid. I am advising him to do a DNA test and then you will have to find a different chump. But this chump has 3 things. Low capasity to know what is going on (IQ83). Want acceptance from someone because of his shitty mother being so fucked up. And on top of that you promise things you refuse to give. He shouldn't be stuck with your poor choices.
• Don't yell at me for something someone else did. I told you all along not to believe them. I told you they were full of shit.
• Don't cry me a river because I know it is the river Styx and believing the lie will float me all the way to the fields of torment and torture. I refuse to float on that river in that boat with you.
• Just fuck off you dumb-ass. NO I didn't tell you that I was unattached. I have kids I have strings everywhere. AND I live in the same house with their father. No I am not Dating or taken but I also am not going to go out with you on a date. I am not on the market. I am just me......And I also Told you I wasn't interested in you at all. I was nice and not cruel when I said that but I didn't flirt. I didn't say something that could lead you to believe otherwise.

Ok I think that about covers all answers I need to do today.

what I did answer was

• Urby while you think it is cute should be your own pet name for your child but make sure everyone else calls him Ray.
• I sure hope that you not only talk to your child but you make sure that they see (insert online videos) and they talk to their Dr so they can understand that this IS truly normal for them and that their are other people just like them. I know you have lied about so many other things that they can't really see that this time you aren't lying.
• Tell your child that the punishment for xxxx is going to be _______ long so they know that it is for the misdeed and so they can really understand that it is wrong. It also is so that when they grow up they realize if the did something illegal the punishment by the police would be put in jail. This is to teach you and give you time to let it remind you that doing things that are wrong have bad consquences. If you get cut with a knife the skin doesn't seal itself up because you didn't mean to cut yourself.
• I understand that you have been taught all your live that you can do whatever because your parents feel guilty about the divorice and neither taking the responsibility of raising you. You are 22 now and need to understand if you screw a bunch of men just because you feel like it you need to be prepared to take on a baby if you are pregnant. Don't just pass it onto someone else. Also it would be in the best interest of your child to find out which guy is really the father so you can know what genetic things may be passed on for later. Things like does heart problems run in the family. Does diabeties run in the family...for the sake of this child and because you wish you had better parents be that better parent and find out now or let someone that wants to adopt kids have a chance of loving and giving this child all it needs.
• I am sorry you lost money on this scheme but sadly this happens when one doesn't check to find out if it is legitament.
• I am sorry you are crying. I hope that you can come to terms with what really happened till then here is the # of someone that is trained to deal with what you are going through as I am a person that doesn't deal well with people crying. SERIOUSLY  I don't deal well at all wtih people crying. Even my own kids I won't talk with them till they calm down. I love you all the same but this is outside of me being able to help.
• Sorry you thought my telling you I don't want to go out with you and that you will find someone was misunderstood. I will say this again. I am not intersted. I dont reward persistance when I am not in the least attracted to you. While you are a good looking man. I am not intersted. I don't want to. Go out with you later either. I don't and am not going to date you or anyone for the time.

That concludes my day and it was only 1430 when I had this all happen. It has been a busy day.

Not by myself or the kids but by E. He keeps reading what I write on his computer. As my computer died I have to use his. When I use his he askes questions about things I have written in my own private journal which is here. So I did some research and found out he installed a keystroke logger. So he knows every word that it typed. I have learned to disable it. I am hoping with knowing this I will get back to writing here again.